I'm not sure if in her confused state if she gave things away or were taken. I Moved here from Calif. to help Brother to care for her. From OHIO. I don't want or need housekeeping or grocery shopping. I can do that for us! I don't want these people from state to call her, come on this property. It just upsets her over again because she feels these people are her friends.She keeps on and on. I've explained to her how much we love her and are trying to help her. I've explained to her, there are changes we have to make for her safety. I'm 69, Brother 63. We have issues with our health that stress complicates.I've told her if she can't help us we will get sick and have to put her in a facility She goes behind our back, lies, manipulates. shes trying to find owner for because she's jealous of her not attacking me and attacking her. Do you have suggestions how to deal with these situations better. Thanks SueGirl
The second last sentence you wrote makes no sense at all. Can you repost?
In a more recent posting you had mentioned that your Mom has been hoarding for the past 10 years.... is it possible that the local authorities are checking on your Mom's housing condition? I recall your brother lives near your Mom and has been helping her out, plus taking care of the cat [Sara Lee] while your Mom was in the hospital with pneumonia.
Honestly, I feel it is time for your Mom to be in a continuing care facility for her own safety and well-being. I know, easier said then done. I recall you were going to move your Mom to California to be closer to you. Did she not want to go?