I AM A 84 YR MOM W/5 ADULT DAUGHTERS - 2 STICK TOGETHER AND 3 STICK TOG TOO.AND THEY TELL ME TO STAY OUT OF IT AS IT IS THEIR SITUATION. I FEEL IT IS GETTING CHRONIC THE LONGER IT GOES ON - ONE TWIN THINKS I HAVE ALWAYS FAVORED HER SISTER AND TWO THAT ALWAYS GOT ALONG NO LONGER DO - IT IS A TOXIC SITUATION THAT I AM LETTING IT GET TO ME.
Are the girls helping you out, or are you pretty independent? You probably are worrying about how will the girls act when the time does come that you need their help. Will they bicker with each other or work as a team. With different personalities, each one can dive in helping with what they do best :)