I called my Auntie. (the one who is angry w/ me and does not want to speak to me) and IT WENT WELL! Per my cell phone, it was an 11 mins. call. I did not ask if she was eatting or sleeping or about her pains. I just offered up my help if she needs anything and benignly asked how she was. She was off topic in response to a couple of questons she asked me, when I answered she went onto another (or back to another) topic.
I know she was visited this weekend and that she has all she needs...WHEW!
I kept it short and sweet and got the heck off before it went south.
THANK YOU ALL FOR ALL OF YOUR ADVICE! I am on cloud nine!
For a moment there, she was her regular old sweet self. Soooo happy!