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Definately words of wisdom. I know this but often need reminding! Thank you Grandmaof8 😄
I remember telling a work 'friend' about an injury. Received a story-topper reply "Oh I had that, but mine was much MUCH worse! Could hardly move/breathe/eat/didn't sleep a wink! But I STILL came to work. I didn't take time off. Did you?" 😖
I actually disagree with this. Here's my food for thought. As I tell all, pick up what works and let the rest sit. There is a whole disagreement among psychologists about what is best for their patients. Many just sit and sit and listen and listen, and support and support that "These feelings are normal" and "And how does that FEEL" and on and on endlessly. What the person seeking help has then is one more friend to listen to the litany. When we are troubled and get ourselves in habitual ways of reacting we follow the same endless paths that lead us nowhere. We count on these listening posts to reassure us that we are "good" and "oh, poor you" and so on. Wonderful, but doesn't really help us. We KNOW that but we keep doing it because it is "comfortable" and represents "the known". It gives a momentary relief. Stress on the momentary. Then there are the psychologists who tell you going in "This is a partnership; you won't find me to be a silent partner who listens to repeats of the same tale over and over again; I WILL give you input in order to shake you up, to rattle the thinking". That is the help I find useful. Where you leave the session feeling like you are a neat scrabble board with known words that just got thrown up in the air. A mess to sort through. To think about. To reconsider. Sure, we need a friend to support us. Hopefully more than one. We don't always want or need input. And we should SAY so if that's what we are looking for. We see many OPs come and say "I don't have a question. I just need to vent. I need to let off steam." That's great. But it doesn't bring solutions from habitual ways of doing things. We get to let off the steam just great, but it starts rebuilding at once. I am one who likes to shake it up a bit. When people come to Forum they come for help. Some of us will try to help by supporting and listening. So of us will try to help by shaking it up a bit so new thinking can get in. I am that latter one. I think you may be the former. The OPs come for help. They may not always be "comfortable " or even "comforted" by what they hear, but they are free to leave the luggage lie and pick up the briefcases that work for them. Just my opinion. I think this is a great subject for discussions, and could be valuable for all of us.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Here's another two good ones:
Don't be upset from people you don't respect
Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves
I remember telling a work 'friend' about an injury. Received a story-topper reply "Oh I had that, but mine was much MUCH worse! Could hardly move/breathe/eat/didn't sleep a wink! But I STILL came to work. I didn't take time off. Did you?"
😖
and beatty -- terrible/silly reaction of that person to your injury. there are mannnny silly people like that.
There is a whole disagreement among psychologists about what is best for their patients. Many just sit and sit and listen and listen, and support and support that "These feelings are normal" and "And how does that FEEL" and on and on endlessly. What the person seeking help has then is one more friend to listen to the litany. When we are troubled and get ourselves in habitual ways of reacting we follow the same endless paths that lead us nowhere. We count on these listening posts to reassure us that we are "good" and "oh, poor you" and so on. Wonderful, but doesn't really help us. We KNOW that but we keep doing it because it is "comfortable" and represents "the known". It gives a momentary relief. Stress on the momentary.
Then there are the psychologists who tell you going in "This is a partnership; you won't find me to be a silent partner who listens to repeats of the same tale over and over again; I WILL give you input in order to shake you up, to rattle the thinking".
That is the help I find useful. Where you leave the session feeling like you are a neat scrabble board with known words that just got thrown up in the air. A mess to sort through. To think about. To reconsider.
Sure, we need a friend to support us. Hopefully more than one. We don't always want or need input. And we should SAY so if that's what we are looking for. We see many OPs come and say "I don't have a question. I just need to vent. I need to let off steam." That's great. But it doesn't bring solutions from habitual ways of doing things. We get to let off the steam just great, but it starts rebuilding at once.
I am one who likes to shake it up a bit.
When people come to Forum they come for help. Some of us will try to help by supporting and listening. So of us will try to help by shaking it up a bit so new thinking can get in. I am that latter one. I think you may be the former.
The OPs come for help. They may not always be "comfortable " or even "comforted" by what they hear, but they are free to leave the luggage lie and pick up the briefcases that work for them.
Just my opinion. I think this is a great subject for discussions, and could be valuable for all of us.