in the last few days ive recieved 4 scathing emails from youngest sis ( 56 ). i told her twice that im perfectly at peace and there was just no animosity in my heart. finally i wrote and apologised for things i may not have dealt with well. in return she sent an apology of her own and explained that shes just hurting. her and mom just never got along well. the moral of my story is ; be patient when somebody is messing with you. i didnt come out of this caregiving for a dying mother without learning a thing or two.
im not suggesting being weak. i had a customer today refusing to pay my price altho the job was well started. i started loading equiptment on the truck. the bluff was over, he lost.lol. so you can be sweet and a mass of iron at the same time..
I also hope I can learn from my own advice!
"Never ruin an apology with an excuse"~Ben Franklin
I can really relate to this. My sis was my hero.
Cheers to you Captain Hero!