I would love to hear an uplifting or inspirational comment from each of you.
Don’t hesitate to add as many comments as you like.
We could all use a little bit of cheer to round out 2020.
Even if your story is sad but has a silver lining, please share it.
No particular topic! Poster’s choice, select any subject.
Wishing everyone on the aging care forum a peace and joy in the upcoming New Year 🎆!
I think of all of you as my online family so I will put this under relationships.
Families spending more time together this year.
Families eating together meals that they have made, or ordered and carried back home.
People realizing how difficult some teachers have it and how hard they work.
A bit of a kick back from my car insurance because I am driving less.
I learned to make sourdough bread, kept my starter (Booger) alive for about 9 months..it died when I went away for 2 weeks. Trying to decide if I want a Booger II...
I wish everyone a safe and happy new year.
There will be a change on Jan. 21.
From what I read and on comments of gardeners finding that seed supplies are more quickly running out, it appears that more people are wisely considering the benefits of growing their own food.
I think it is wonderful that he is 82 years old and took the time to encourage others.
I only made homemade bread once! I think that is wonderful. The smell of bread baking is heavenly!
I love that families are eating together.
Great response, GA. We aren’t perfect and never will be but living in a free country is something to smile about.
Indeed we are a giving nation. You are correct by saying the demand for food and supplies are enormous.
My daughter rescued him from a shelter.
I haven’t met him because I haven’t been able to visit Denver to see my daughter yet.
Let’s hope all of the dogs and cats that have rescued from shelters because of people wanting company during Covid will be in loving homes.
That I could handle!
I was helping a friend make bread. There were several steps. It was not hard but time consuming.
Her kitchen smelled so lovely when the bread was baking.
The only problems I had was when I tried whole wheat bread. I didn't realize that whole wheat flour needs to be offset (and forgive me but I've forgotten what my mother used to offset it) or it becomes hard, like a whole wheat brick.
I'm laughing because it sounds like you enjoy "beating" the heck out of the bread dough - but, I'm glad you savor every morsel of that fresh out of the oven bread.
Now, about that "whole wheat brick".....
Found out who my unknown four legged visitor is; it's one of the neighbor's cats, who have always roamed loose. I don't mind the cats since I'm partial to them, but her first cat was hit by a car when crossing the street. There's no excuse for not keeping animals in the yard and away from harm.
I think my secret visitor though either has a secret friend, or is finding some tasty meals in the bushes. Her footprints lead across the porch to the side, then disappear. I assume she's jumping down into the bushes, perhaps to watch for the next meal, or may rendezvous with another furry feline.
The birds do congregate in that area, and I've seen evidence in the garden area that they've been in battle with something, probably the other cat which patrols my back yard regularly.
SIL has a job that makes crazy good money and so after 14 years of penny pinching, YD is not complaining/worrying about finances.
I'm in remission from cancer and my hair grew back in a style I can only refer to as "Russian Hamster'. BUT...I have hair.
We have a vaccine and DH and I will be among the 3rd wave of people to get it. All out grands had COVID, so we have been able to be with them.
That’s wonderful! Enjoy your grandchildren.
So happy that you are in remission.
Earthquake! Geeeez, very uplifting. Hahaha
Happy New Year! 🎆
I have a kitty that scampers along my fence and wonders in my yard but he runs if I go near him. He’s definitely a scaredy-cat!
I know that you miss him but I totally agree that knowing that he is no longer suffering is a great reason to feel joy!
I also believe that he is watching over you. Don’t you? One day you will join him.
I felt that way too. If I would have had someone to understand my circumstances much sooner, things could have been different.
Venting does help. We end up exploding if we bottle everything up.
So glad that you have felt comfort from this group.
Ahhh, so "punching" down the dough is an arm exercise! I better add that to my list of to-do exercises. Just kidding, I did know it was necessary to do that when making yeast breads since my mom made homemade bread when I was growing up. I've also made it a few times until she bought me a bread machine for Christmas many years ago. It just struck me as "funny" when I read it and could picture you giving the dough the ole one, two! Not only relaxing but a good way to take out frustrations too!
Glad the mystery visitor has been identified - yes, your neighbor should be keeping a better eye on them since she's already lost one cat while crossing the street. How sad and unnecessary.
Poor birds having to go to battle for their lives - sounds like the other guest might just be feasting on them :(
This year has had far more downs than ups, but I tell myself that this is all part of the total experience of what makes a life. We'll get through this, and there will be happy times again.
Keep the lovely positive posts coming, please.
Your messages are truly warming my heart.
We all need some wonderful news about right now.
These have been trying times for so many of us.
It sounds like you have made many sacrifices during your caregiving years, which is truly a testament to your deepest love for your sweet husband.
Now you are deserving of time spent for you.
Enjoy your beach trip with your family. Please share all about it afterwards.
I wish there was a spot for photos on this forum. I would love to see a huge smile on your face!
Go knowing that you have done your best in life, the way that you chose to. Have the most wonderful time of your life for YOU!
Hubby would want you to take all the time in the world to relax and be at peace.
As you said, he is at peace now and you are now free to enjoy your family and friends.
One thing I find so refreshing to read in your posts is that you are happy to know that you did your best.
It always makes me sad to read others say that they could or should have done more, as if they hadn’t done enough, when the truth is that they did all they could possibly do for the person they loved so dearly.
I love that your family will be spreading your husband’s ashes there at the beach.
I believe that he will be there with all of you in spirit.
You are going to be a fabulous mother in law!
I was blessed with a beautiful MIL for which I am so grateful.
I miss her dearly. RIP Mom.
I couldn’t agree more! We have lots to be grateful for.
First responders, military and teachers are amazing!
Let’s not forget about the parents homeschooling too!
Incredible to think about the adjustments all of us have made during this difficult time.
January, I became a Granny for the first time.
February, I received my Qualified Associate Financial Planner designation
June: I received my Wine Business Certificate
July: Millie had her Covid Kittens, the vet clinics closed and she could not be spayed. I kept one of the 6 kittens, little Miss Pinot.
October, I received my BBA in Financial Services
November, I received my Elder Planning Counselor designation
December: My ex sent me a remarkable letter acknowledging responsibility for much of the strife in our marriage.
December 31, I finished my course work to allow me to write my CFP exam in 2021.
December 31, best thing, I get to spend my New Years Eve with my grandson who turns 11 months old today.
In my part of Canada, grandparents tho provide care are allowed to continue to do so. I have cared for Rayne on overnight visits from the time he was 10 days old. I love him to bits.
2020 has been a challenging year on every level.
Wow! It has been a great year for you, in spite of the mayhem of this pandemic!
Your accomplishments made me smile from ear to ear. Very inspiring!
Congrats on the new grandchild.
I have a new grandpuppy that is 11 months old. He’s my avatar! I wish that I could meet him but he’s several states away.
I love your kitty’s name! Great wine!
Thanks for adding a little sunshine on the thread. 😊