I'll cut to the chase with this discussion. I won't sugar coat anything. Those two dreaded words are urine and feces......yes, piss and shit. Some time in your "caregiver saga", you will learn to dread those two words. With that said, I just had to clean up after my 89 years old mother. She craves laxatives......like a junkie craves heroin. Every time she has a bowel movement, its never good enough. She can fill up the toilet, but in her mind "hardly anything came out". What gets so twisted in the elderly mind that they have such a fixation on having bowel movements? It can be an all day subject with my mother. It completely takes over her. Her new favorite word is enema, but I refuse to ever go that route. She can have a good bowel movement and the very next day mention an enema. When she has her bowel movement......she is as meek as a lamb......only to turn into a crazed tiger when her next bowel movement is "due".
As usual folks......the curse continues!
Maybe in her mind if she has a daily bowel movement that means she is still alive.
myself. Time to give up and send him to a care home.
Helpful suggestions:
Vicks under the nose.It will help you cope with the odor.
Latex gloves,Double strength bounty, scented waste bags and strong smelling cleaners used with a swiffer type disposable pad makes a quicker clean up.
Laxatives and enemas: Yes, using them habitually leads to dependancy both physical and mental.You need to consult your doc or a RN who is familier with geriatric probs.for a solution.
Playing with their poops or not making the bowl:
Try this:Time and schedule their meals and snacks.Usually the bowels move within an hour or less depending on their age.The body has it's own clock and will evacuate on schedule whether the person has eaten or not so making a "date" with the procelin throne at scheduled times will help.
The types of food you serve will often affect this schedule so be aware! Heavy leals, roughage (salads) Chocolate, coffee, sugary treats all move things along more quickly than expected!
Therapy and poops: If he poops as soon as therapy begins why not sit him on the john for these sessions?If his BM is that predictable you could save yourself some time.