My grandpa is a terrible person, it's as simple as that, he yells at everyone, he says slurs to everyone, he used to be physically abusive but it's not anymore because he does not get up from a couch anymore. He has so many sicknesses and still is abusive yelling at everyone. No one wants to pay to put him on a nursing home. What can we do? It's too much already, no one likes him.
He owns the home and has most of the money for it as well.
If he CAN’T look after himself and he needs help and there’s no one to do it you can call 911 if he is a danger to himself or others. Since he lives alone, once at the hospital, explain the situation and ask for a psych consult. They will determine if he can discharge himself and go home.
Does he have Dementia? Did he assign a POA. If there is a POA and it can be proven that he is incompetent the POA becomes in effect. Then the POA can place him. If he has money it will go for his care. If he requires Medicaid, his home is an exempt asset and your family will need to prove why they should be able to stay there. If Medicaid does not allow u to stay in the home, then it will need to be sold for his care. In any event, if Medicaid is paying for his care, his SS and any pension he receives goes to offset the cost of his care.
If Grandfather has the ability to care for himself or hire help, then your family has the ability to leave. If his care is such he cannot be alone, APS can be called and told your family is no longer able to care for him and he needs a forced placement.
However, you nor anyone else is obligated to stay living there and continue taking his abuse.
Also you nor any other family member is responsible for your grandpa's care, nor any costs associated with it. Only he is. And if he doesn't have enough money for it, he can apply for Medicaid.
So quit taking the abuse, and get the heck out of his house!!!
Because his house and money for it are his and are to be used for his care.
No one else would be paying Grandpa's NH bills. But if he needs Medicaid funding and owns a home, it will have a lien put on it that will need to be satisfied after he passes.