Me and my grandma take care of my papas mother she broke her hip and cant walk and she has Alzheimer's she wakes up all night. She wakes up all during the night. Last night she woke up sometime and she took off her brief pamper thing and was trying to take off her sleeping gown. She sees things all the time. when my grandamothere os at work i have to take care of her she is my grandpas mother she lived with her daughter but she called my papa and said come get her she is neaver to come back to my house. she tells us all the time that her daughter and son in law was doing all kinds of stuff to her and cussing her telling her she anit nothing but trash and all that stuff and she says things that they had done to her. its hard for me to take care of her she is 87 and im only 13 and me and my grandmother dont know what to do. she says people are takeing stuff out of her house and she sees stuff and sees people. today she was looking at the window and was sayign there was a kitten there and she told me to get it and bring it to her so i went out side and got one of our cats but there wasnt no kitten and i said heres the kitten and she cussed me saying that anit no d*** kitten and grabed the cat by its tail and threw the cat. when she starts talking crazy i get her to talk about her child hood and diffrent things and i do her nails when she starts talking crazy and do diffrent things.
Her reality is not our reality and at times you may not be able to talk her back into the real world. Sometimes it reaches the point that you just can't talk to them about anything other than what they are experiencing in their own minds. It can be very scary even for adult caregivers. Best to try not upsetting her but go along with the story line assuring her all is well. Did she have hobbies before that might interest her now? Every day may be so different than the previous making it hard to keep her entertained.
You sound very mature and patient for your age. Your grandmothers are blessed to have you around but there just comes a time when professional help is needed. Her doctor might suggested an in home evaluations to see what services she is eligible for. Hopefully you are attending school; if this is interfering with your education, other arrangements need to be made immediately. Best of luck!
If she starts talking crazy, just let her and then distract her by saying "grandma lets go into the kitchen and get a snack", or take a walk, or ask grandma to help fold some laundry... Distracting grandma or moving to another room in the house might help re-orient her back into her "right mind".
You need to tell dad or another trusted friend or adult about your feelings, fears. You are too young to have these responsibilities and it isn't fair for adults to expect you to care for grandma while you are off from school? Who cares for grandma when you are at school?