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If u work, see if they have a program that helps u in this type of problem. If she worked or ur Dad, they may have a program that helps the retirees. Good luck.
So, according to your profile, you are caring for your wife. How far along in the disease do you think she is? Are you just starting out, or has things changed and she's getting worse.
I've got a little saying that I say sometimes, that it's a marathon, not a sprint. By that I mean, try to pace yourself because it usually goes on for years. Caregiver burnout is a real thing. Try to take care of yourself, make sure you eat and sleep enough. Get as much help as you can. Let your wife do as much as she physically can for as long as she can. Everyone likes to be useful. But be prepared for the day when she will not be able to cook, or make decisions. Be prepared to simplify the way you talk to her, but not talk down to her. Just shorter, simpler sentences. You, or someone, is going to have to get all up in her private business. Toileting, bathing, dressing.
I hope you come to realize that this is a good place to ask questions. You may not always get a bunch of answers, but, given enough to work on, we try to help in any way we can. There are all kinds of people on this site who are dealing with all kinds of situations, so ASK AWAY!
I hope you realize, Salisbury, that I don't mean that to be depressing. It's just a reminder to me (and to anyone else who cares) that we need to pace ourselves and not wear out at the beginning of the process.
Hi tx camper, I hope you realize that I was writing in gratitude--not sarcasm. I was just in a funk and wondering "how long?????" when I read your reminder--and truly, it lifted me right up! I need to forget about "when" and focus on enjoying today, and it is many hours later, and I did enjoy the day.
I would start with a nice daycare, some pick them up also. Then, I myself use care online or sittercity. You can get their background checks and find some great people but you have to weed through them. I found that someone in their 50's seem to be best and most loving but others are good as well. I would also put up cameras, fake or not, to keep them in line. IF they are honest people, it wont bother them a bit. Good luck, hope this helps.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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I've got a little saying that I say sometimes, that it's a marathon, not a sprint. By that I mean, try to pace yourself because it usually goes on for years. Caregiver burnout is a real thing. Try to take care of yourself, make sure you eat and sleep enough. Get as much help as you can. Let your wife do as much as she physically can for as long as she can. Everyone likes to be useful. But be prepared for the day when she will not be able to cook, or make decisions. Be prepared to simplify the way you talk to her, but not talk down to her. Just shorter, simpler sentences. You, or someone, is going to have to get all up in her private business. Toileting, bathing, dressing.
I hope you come to realize that this is a good place to ask questions. You may not always get a bunch of answers, but, given enough to work on, we try to help in any way we can. There are all kinds of people on this site who are dealing with all kinds of situations, so ASK AWAY!
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Hi tx camper, I hope you realize that I was writing in gratitude--not sarcasm. I was just in a funk and wondering "how long?????" when I read your reminder--and truly, it lifted me right up! I need to forget about "when" and focus on enjoying today, and it is many hours later, and I did enjoy the day.