My mom is in NH in NY state. She is in a wheelchair, dementia and almost 100% blind due to shingles, and subject to falls from rolling out of bed. We have put these (authorized) precautions into place: Wider bed, fall mats on both sides, lowered bed to the floor, moved furniture away from bed that she may hit, padded the corners of A/C unit, 15 minute bed checks. When I am here and putting her down for a nap, I pack pillows around her and place her big call disc near her bum so she may roll onto it if she wakes up and is on the move, she may accidentally activate it. She is blind and can’t see it, and with the dementia doesn't use it in the normal way. These 2 last procedures are considered “restraints” in NY so are unauthorized, so the aids do this on the down-low and I can’t get them documented into her care plan. This is more than frustrating to me and the nurses. They’ve asked me to consider moving her room across from the nurses station where they think they will be able to spot or hear her and intervene. I hesitate to take this step as she’s been in the same room since moving here 2 years ago, it’s bright and pleasant and her roommate watches out for her and calls for the aids if Mom has a problem. Not her responsibility but she’s a lovely caring person who I try to help as much as possible too. The potential new room is depressing and roommate sleeps 99% of time and is noncommunicative. I want what's best for Mom, but I’m not sure what to do. I don’t want this to be about me, but I sure don’t want to be any more depressed when I’m here than I already am! Before I take this step does anyone have more ideas on bed fall prevention that we could try? They won’t move her unless I agree, and it’s the only thing left in their bag of tricks, although they are not familiar with dealing with blind residents, she's the only one here!
Simple, effective prevention, that really works...at less than $110! My only constant regret is that I didn't think to research and buy one before her recent attempt to get up in the wee hours and, struggling past the hospice provided side-barred bed, managed to fall...breaking her left hip in the process!
Just think, a mere $100 might have saved the $50,000+ surgery needed to repair the break, never mind the pain and lengthy recovery she's now still having to endure. As a retired engineer, I've simply no excuse for myself for not having thought of the possibility and had installed such a simple and effective system in place in time to have prevented all that.
p.s. For anyone interested, the monitor is marketed with the name "Smart Caregiver Wireless Bed Alarm." Just googling that will identify numerous sources. Hope this helps.
I will research the fall alarm that rings at the nurses station.
Comuter girl have you ever been a patient in a nursing home?
Yes this lady is blind and can not see her surroundings but I don't believe she is deaf.
Her room mate is a plaesant and careing person and the patient's family visits with her too
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I agree it is the staff job to look after patients but that does not include one on one care 24/7. I would have loved to have had room mates like that when I was in hospital and rehab
Imagine someone who never sleeps constantly poops the bed and waits hours to be cleaned up while you are trying to eat, or comes from a large family who talk loudly in their native language.
I would opt as I said in a previous post to not put Mom close to the nurses station and the constant noise and commotion that goes on there. Pleasant room keeps the room mate in good spirits and looking out for Mom gives her something positive to do with her life.
This familly's problem is stopping Mom falling and getting round the over zealous restrictions on restraints, this is a major problem with many elders blind or sighted.
Last night we were just discussing the baby monitor idea since some family members just installed one to monitor a newborn via cellphone. Assuming I would have to sneak it in, after consideration I think it would just add more worry/helicoptering to my stress as I would be glued to it. I am already at the NH 4 hours/day so it probably wouldn’t be healthy for me (or my DH).
That said, is it against rules for YOU to install a camera and have that camera alert YOU? With that in place at least YOU would know and could call the nurses.
We had several at the condo (non-invasive areas) for checking on mom and anyone who showed up, when she was still at home. Motion activated, length of recording can be programmed, those who get the alerts can also be programmed (one alert when camera was triggered, one when the recording was done - these can be viewed in the app, and it also has "live" capability, so if you wanted to peek and see what's going on, you can. I opted for the email with a recording static image/access to recording as well when my brother set it up. More was better, except when the OCD sun-downing nightly marathon of checking things over and over and over started!)
If no cameras are allowed at all, that is just plain stupid.
Perhaps we are enough on AgingCare to mount a protest to get these rules removed or amended?!?!?!
You do honestly have to wonder what bright sparks are figuring out these principles, and long to make those people have to try them out personally, in practice.
I am with everyone who say these anti restraint laws have gotten so out of hand.
Let them move Mom. They moved my mom and it was no big deal. It was actually a nicer room!
A wedge bolster or pillow might also help. It would make it more difficult to get out of bed.
I doubt moving her to a room across from the nurses station would help. There is no way anyone can have eyes on her at all times.
At some point a fall will happen, it is despite all the ambulance chasing lawyer ads on TV, no ones fault. Anymore than you can prevent a toddler from falling. Or yourself for that matter if the circumstances are right.
At that point you have to make the decision to have any breaks surgically repaired or call Hospice for Comfort Care. I say this because she would probably not be a good candidate for surgery and more importantly participating in rehab.
I understand the video baby monitor, because of privacy, what about a two way voice only one that if they hear her try to get up they can start moving that way and also talking to encourage her to stay in bed?
Another way is to hire an outside home care company to be there one on one when she is most at risk. I’m assuming that is at night. Expensive, but very effective if that person is in the room or sitting right outside the room if the door can stay open.
Given that it's difficult for him to move at all b/c he's so weak, we still haven't figured out how he fell out of bed.
Bed rails wouldn't be used b/c of the danger (worse than falling on the floor???). I've meant to ask if bringing in his Medic Alert pendant would be appropriate; it has a sensor that activates at the monitoring company if a change in position is detected. It's activated when he's fallen asleep and when he falls forward or onto the floor.
I don't know if there really are any good solutions, in part b/c of the ban on some possible constraints. If I could have gotten bed rails, I planned to pad them either with one of the fleece comforters or with the soft padding used in cribs.
It amazes me that technology is wasted on things like VCRs in cars, cameras for backup, yet something as necessary as a decent and safe bed rail apparently isn't on the drawing board. But then, funds for R & D probably aren't allocated by the companies that manufacture products for the aged in the same magnitude as those companies that manufacture vehicles and tech devices.
Why no baby monitor?
Surely THAT can't be a restraint. So, is it an "infringement" of privacy?
Who the h*ll made these dumb laws anyway? Maybe their loved ones never had dementia and died young.