I am a companion to my grandfather in an assisted living facility. He has dementia but is otherwise pretty healthy for 93. He has a girlfriend at the facility - they've been together for four years (just hugs and kisses). I recently found out from a PCA that she is having intercourse with another resident when my grandfather is not around. What am I supposed to do? Please help with any suggestions...I hate for my grandfather to be put in such a shameful situation.
Blessings
Bridget
This really puts a whole new angle on the whole thing for me.
WWII, don't worry. I understand that it's hard to be nice to her but hey, if she has Dementia too there's no reasoning with anyone anyway so let it go, spare Grandpa and spare yourself. You are a good grandkid and I know that I would be proud of you for caring like you do. You are an angel.
lovbob
if i was in that place i prob be havin fun too :-)