Dad had a stroke because of A Fib - blood clot. He had been independent up until this point. Walked everyday 6 to 10 blocks, no cane or walker. No salt diet, never smoked or drank alcohol, active social life. 97years old, 124 cholesterol, blood pressure 140/70. After stroke he can walk, talk, light eater, just some memory issues. Doctors put him on bp meds & cholesterol med. So now his blood pressure keeps going down to around 84/50. I feel it's the meds causing the low blood pressure. I keep asking what is the cause. Can't get clear answer. Well he is dehydrated - no the blood work does not show that. Does a 97 year old man need to take this medicine when all his life he never took any medicine?
Was that cholesterol reading before or after the meds? As I'm sure you know, it certainly doesn't seem to need intervention. The blood pressure is a teensy bit higher than ideal, I believe? - but in a 97 year old, surely any tinkering with it needs to be done with extreme caution.
The thing is, the px seems standard, what you would expect; but your father is not a standard patient. All I can say is if it were me, I would go to his established GP (if he has one you're happy with) or back to his cardiologist/attending physician, and say the equivalent of "not happy, what are we doing, could we go back to the drawing board please." With as much polite jumping up and down and snarling as necessary.
Changes have to be clinically justified in each individual patient, not just made for their own sake. Make them concentrate on *him*.
One incident: he got pale, beating on his chest and said any one have a stethoscope. I got nurses, BP was dropping, put on IV and had an EKG. Ok 2 days later I finally get the doctor, I asked what happened? She explains and made the comment that it was his heart AFib , so I ask what made the BP drop, she says oh his BP was ok --- No I looked at my notes is was 84/50!!
How lucky he is to have you as an advocate!
Its very important to work with a cardiologist to wean slowly (and not take him off meds yourself). Don’t settle for anyone who isn’t a specialist.
These days lots of people live past 100, and it sounds like he didn’t have much damage from the stroke.
Does he read? The first 3 months following a stroke are important - the brain can repair and can greatly improve with therapy. Does he have PT and OT?
If not, puzzles of any type, helping with household chores, reading, writing and short walks will all be very therapeutic. Have him write lists of things, fruits, countries of the world, zoo animals. Lists of anything that might interest him.
If he can, ask him to write short notes to friends and family members. Those will be treasured.
I wish you the best.
Play...
Checkers, and any games he likes, I could literally see improvement with each game of Checkers. Make sure games are “easy” enough that he doesn’t get stressed out, and just sees this as fun. Rummicub is great since he likes cards- and working with the “tiles” is good for fine motor skills. Go to the movies (discuss afterward). Take him to beautiful places where he can watch birds. Play music from his era (easy through Amazon). The music will take ten years off!
Do things that Improve hand-eye coordination (table tennis?)
Try to help him get some exercise every day. We would go to the shopping mall. In the beginning, we would walk and sit on every bench. He was holding onto me like a walker. That meant we would walk 20 feet, sit down for 10 minutes get up walk 20 feet. He started saying, “let’s keep going” and we would skip a bench. In about a month we worked up to two miles without stopping. Walking at the mall was nice because the temperature was constant, the floor surface was perfectly smooth and safe. He got Vans (skateboarding shoes). Their smooth, flat, solid, large sole promotes balance. He loved all the “cool shoes” comments and he looked sharp! If your dad is a veteran, get him one of those nice caps - he’ll get friendly interactions and “thank yous” from strangers that will lift his spirits and make him feel valuable and appreciated.
My dad also liked using a stationary bike, and that was nice because he didn’t have to focus on balancing, like he did when when walking
I’m so happy for you that you have this time together! You are so lucky.
Enjoy!
With my Dad, I talked to Dr/NP.. Discontinued his BP med.. First, with that low of BP, they become a fall risk.. Can develop orthostatic hypotension..Also, Some BP meds have a diuretic tied into them, ie., losartan hctz(sp?), causing/exacerbating dehydration..I took Dad off cholesterol med..He lost weight, so his numbers were good w/o meds..
Pls rest, as one caregiver to another.. Hug your Dad every day❤️
There is no reason for a cholesterol med if ur under 200. A statin will effect them cognitively.
Managing the HR however is important and shouldn't be ignored here again because you don't need another stroke to deal with so I would make sure he has a good cardiologist along with the neurologist that has likely been the one in charge of his stroke care, they look at things differently. Mom was on a BP medication before being hospitalized for A-fib, I don't remember off hand if she was on it pre-stroke and heart surgery but when she went in with the A-fib it was one of the medications they used to get it under control by more than quadrupling her dose and had to bring that back down a bit because it dropped her BP too much, when they weren't able to manage the HR with that medication and maybe one other she had been on for a while...they added a blood thinner and adjusted the two until they had her rate under control and managed. It took time and as I say balancing but they were using the Metoprolol (known to us as BP med) first as I recall. I remember being shocked at how much higher a dose she was sent home on.
I am a proponent of less or no meds and currently take OTC Vit D3 and 2 aspirin a day. In the past I was told to take Fosamax for early osteoporosis (looked it up and said nope, not happening!) and prior to that cholesterol meds - nope, I will figure this out and fix it without meds (and had to figure it out myself as docs were clueless then as to the REAL cause of some high cholesterol, such as blaming eggs, organ meats, cakes, cookies, pies, MILK, stuff I didn't even consume!) In my case, processed foods! Basically anything with a shelf life - ditch it! Eating various nuts will help raise the "good" HDL. My total runs over the recommended 200, but only because HDL is higher than suggested (and good!)
Have you discussed ALL concerns and questions in detail with his doctor(s), aka why so much, can it be reduced or eventually eliminated? His BP values before were not bad. The cholesterol - was that LDL, HDL or total? If total, why cholesterol meds? Anything under 200 is considered GOOD! What kind of doctor Rxed these meds (I see another post from you where they agreed to stop the cholesterol meds)? Regular PCP/GP or cardiologist?
We here are not doctors (there might be some among us who are, but no one should ever Dx or Rx without seeing a patient and test results!) We should not say yay or nay whether the meds are necessary.
Personally I would question his doctors about his condition(s) and any/all meds, especially given that 140/70 isn't that bad, esp at 97 (values could be higher when readings taken at doc office or hospital.) Our mother has been on multiple BP meds for a long time, and hers is still usually 140/something. Systolic 140 is on the highest end of "pre-high BP", diastolic 70 is "mid-average", so that shouldn't be a concern. If he gets okay to light exercise, he can likely get/keep his BP lower naturally. However there may be other reasons for the meds. Asking questions about the medications and dosages, monitoring his BP when at home (don't repeat over and over, take a couple of readings/day AT MOST, usually at the same time each day) and record it. If he is still running low-normal all the time, you have documentation to show to the doctor. Doc may be willing to adjust the meds (certainly don't stop them if his readings are 'normal' - the meds may be getting it under control.) I would also not rely solely on a PCP, unless he/she is a cardiologist. The type and dosage should be carefully formulated for your dad and your dad alone, preferably by a cardiologist, not for some point on a chart.
Best of luck getting and staying informed and hope for many more healthy years for dad!
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If I were 97 years old, however, I may skip the statin. As far as blood pressure everyone is different in what they can tolerate. I do agree that elderly folks need a higher BP for brain and organ perfusion.
Have a good heart to heart talk with whoever is prescribing the medications and tell them your concerns.
Please don’t abruptly discontinue BP meds as some need to be titrated down before being stopped.
I worked with a nurse (at his facility) to slowly get him off any cholesterol drug and we found he only require a little something for BP. Not as much as they had him on!
If his Dr. refuses, find another! He could go unconscious with that low of BP
(my mom had episodes of that).
Your dad may not require anything....
All the best!!
Your dad still has his agency and nothing says your dad HAS TO take medication that is prescribed. I'd let your dad decide.
If he is of sound mind and can understand the reasoning behind the "why" he is taking the medication he can determine if he wants to continue it. If he is not of sound mind and if you are his POA for health you can decide if you want him to continue with the medication.
After my Husband was diagnosed with dementia I made the decision to have him put back on a cholesterol medication (he decided years prior that he did not want to take it after being on it for about 6 months) I decided that it would be more difficult for me to care for him if he had a life altering stroke along with the dementia. After he went on Hospice I decided to discontinue his cholesterol medication. He lived another 3 years and although he may have had "mini strokes" (I think he also had vascular dementia so I don't think the meds would have helped in any case) he never had a major stroke.
So given the risks for a stroke, the possible outcome if he did have another stroke he or you or both of you along with consulting with his doctor can make an informed decision.
If his BP is that low - stop the BP medicine too.
My 97 yr old mother was prescribed a daily aspirin after her stroke, instead of cholesterol lowering medications.
TAlk to the Dr and ask him what he thinks. A stroke is a very close to have the results. I have taken care 2 of my brothers and also I have had high blood pressure due to some circumstances. I am 75. 92 is quite a feat for him.
I know you are quite concerned. Drs do what is right and they understand the situation. I do care by all means and these things can bring questions.
Jane