Dad has become hateful and bitter about most decisions that have to be made for their care. He has multiple dr appointments to take care of his health problems. He is wheelchair bound.. some weeks its dr appointments everyday. Because of covid I have to do any errands for them. When Dad has issues with mom he calls me to talk to her to calm her down.
Those phone calls are 5 or 6 times at night. And I am no help to her over the phone.
I am tired of all the issues with dementia, and dad getting angry with me for calling in a nurse to give mom some medicine or having a sitter come in to sit with mom so he can go to bed.
Any suggestions would be welcome.