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Who are you caring for?
Which best describes their mobility?
How well are they maintaining their hygiene?
How are they managing their medications?
Does their living environment pose any safety concerns?
Fall risks, spoiled food, or other threats to wellbeing
Are they experiencing any memory loss?
Which best describes your loved one's social life?
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I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment. You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints. Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights. APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.I agree that: A.I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information"). B.APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink. C.APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site. D.If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records. E.This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year. F.You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
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Mostly Independent
Your loved one may not require home care or assisted living services at this time. However, continue to monitor their condition for changes and consider occasional in-home care services for help as needed.
Remember, this assessment is not a substitute for professional advice.
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CD, you say in your profile that your mother had 'some kind days, but mostly quite vicious' towards you. Then you debate the care options you've seen so far; and then you say that you are looking forward to caring for your mother at home, even though you are well aware that it is going to be tough.
What is it that you are looking forward to? Her deteriorating mental status? Her continued wandering? Her better days getting fewer and further between, while you get shorter and shorter of sleep?
Please keep researching, please find better options; please, at least ask the facility if they are able to suggest any assistance. You will be broke, you will be stuck and your mother will only get worse. Please don't give up your job/ability to support yourself. Please don't bring her home to live with you.
Here are some things to think about if you are trying to decide whether to quit work to care for your mother.... on average if a working person quits work he/she will lose over the years between $285,000 and $325,000 which includes not only loss of salarys... it also includes the net worth loss of the health insurance coverage.... loss of money being put into Social Security/Medicare..... loss of other benefits such as matching 401(k).... profit sharing.... workman's comp insurance.... company sponsored life insurance.... vacation pay, sick pay.... tuition assistance, etc. [source: in part Reuters 5/30/12]
Sign your Mom up for Medicaid. At least with Medicaid they will help pay for continuing care but it won't be at an Assisted Living facility, more likely a nursing home.
Depending on your own age, if you are close to retirement and are already on Medicare for your own health insurance, and am receiving Social Security, you might be able to bring Mom home, but would you have the energy to do everything that she would need? Your profile says your Mom has Alzheimer's/Dementia which could mean you are dealing with 168 hours a work each week... hopefully there are other siblings or relatives that can help you out. Otherwise you will crash and burn pretty quickly. Then what? Mom goes into a nursing home.
Here's an idea, some Assisted Living facility have room-mate type rooms, each person has their own bedroom, but they share a bath. This is less expensive.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
What is it that you are looking forward to? Her deteriorating mental status? Her continued wandering? Her better days getting fewer and further between, while you get shorter and shorter of sleep?
Please keep researching, please find better options; please, at least ask the facility if they are able to suggest any assistance. You will be broke, you will be stuck and your mother will only get worse. Please don't give up your job/ability to support yourself. Please don't bring her home to live with you.
Sign your Mom up for Medicaid. At least with Medicaid they will help pay for continuing care but it won't be at an Assisted Living facility, more likely a nursing home.
Depending on your own age, if you are close to retirement and are already on Medicare for your own health insurance, and am receiving Social Security, you might be able to bring Mom home, but would you have the energy to do everything that she would need? Your profile says your Mom has Alzheimer's/Dementia which could mean you are dealing with 168 hours a work each week... hopefully there are other siblings or relatives that can help you out. Otherwise you will crash and burn pretty quickly. Then what? Mom goes into a nursing home.
Here's an idea, some Assisted Living facility have room-mate type rooms, each person has their own bedroom, but they share a bath. This is less expensive.