I am my Mom's live in caregiver but my brother has the POA. He visits on Sundays and checks up to see if I am keeping the house clean and taking good care of our Mother. I feel so frustrated but am stuck in the situation. He has wanted to put her in a nursing home and rent out her house, but I felt strongly that she would be better off at home with help. It's hard to live with this anger at sibling. If I try to discuss anything with him we end argueing. I don't feel I can afford to pay a lawyer. The Alzheimers Assoc might have a counselor I can talk to. I have to hang in here and keep taking care of mom.