She needs that money for Medicaid now....he can't pay it back...help!!! She is blind, is on dialysis and lived with him for 5 years. She has helped support he and his wife many times over the years and he has also spent her social security and pension checks each month too. She went into a nursing home early 2015 and Medicaid has determined if he doesn't pay back the money from the sale of the house, mom will have to go back to live with him.....P.S. borderline elder abuse too. He is only one with power of attorney.
A lot of people do a lot of sketchy things with parent's money because neither side understand the consequences. It can turn out to be sad, but the rules and laws are there to protect the vulnerable person.
You are going to need an attorney to help out ASAP.
And given the fact that he has power of attorney, he may have used it as a license to steal; that's elder abuse as well as criminal behavior.