I grew up with an extremely physically abusive father who abused my mother as well, and since she is very elderly with Parkinson's, we tried to place him and has gotten kicked out of Two memory care facilities because he was a physical threat to the other residents. Someone please help us.
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https://www.agingcare.com/questions/my-father-needs-an-appropriate-long-term-facility-that-has-the-right-skills-to-handle-dementia-452581.htm?orderby=oldest
He is a danger to himself and others. Finding another memory care facility, you know, will not work. It is only a matter of time.
Find safe placement for mom. Get her out of there!
From your profile, it sounds like dad is now in a third memory care. Have MC call the police when he gets violent and then let the system deal with him. Do not step in, make it the state's job.
https://www.sgvcamft.org/psychiatric-facilities-agencies-medical-centers