My ex has bipolar and PTSD. He cannot care for himself. I have been taking care of my ex for the past 4 years. never claimed him before on my taxes.. I am his payee on the social security which just take care of bills- i pay for medical etc- food- clothing etc. Do i calim my self as a givergiver
I know we like to b*tch and moan about the IRS, BUT, you can contact them FOR FREE (document it) and ask for advice. I did it once and was very satisfied. Try it, what do you have to lose? Even if you don't feel confident on what they say (likely due to communication errors), at least if you hire your own CPA, you will have a mutual language to speak
As the Brits say, "It's a sticky wicket." I think you'll be pleasantly surprised, if you do it soon-ish (closer to the deadline...they are slammed). Better to be safe than sorry!