Her husband of 20 years an 12 of them married. The kids are trying to get his will changed and cause grief for my mom, due to they want $.
we expect they will try and dis credit my mom and doctors ect.
whats possible? can they take anything away from her?
Why would they try to challenge doctors, unless it would be to refute the Alzheimer's Dx so that your father could legally make changes to his DPOA himself.
If you expect this to happen, it would be advisable to see an elder law attorney. If you can't afford one, do some research on your local state bar association and look for pro bono legal groups or attorneys.