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Just got a call from my doctor and after the PetScan and a Bone Marrow Biopsy earlier this week--he sees NO evidence of cancer--not even enough to warrant radiation!!


I am so mixed in my feelings--happy but tired still---which I will be for some time still.


How funny that 'good health' will be the new norm?


A huge shout out of thanks to all who sent me words of support and love and prayers!!


My takeaway from this? Be a better, kinder person and don't 'dump' friends when they are ill. Be there for them at whatever level they may need.

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I'm so happy for you Midkid!!!
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Great news!!
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That’s awesome!!! So happy for you!
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Woo hoo!!!!! Amazing news midkid!!!
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Wow wow wow! Super wonderful news and I'm so happy for you!
Cheers to a healthy life!
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That is thrilling news, MidKid! You have been such a brave warrior all through this and I'm glad that you have nothing left to do but rest and recover your strength. And of course, be a shining example for others going through a struggle like yours.
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So wonderful to hear, Mid!
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So happy for you! Thanksgiving will have special meaning this year!!
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This is such wonderful news! I am so happy for you! And right before the holidays!
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WOOOOOOOOOOOTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so very happy for you!!!
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Such great news!
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Cancer is gone.
Midkid has won the battle!
I am so happy for you!
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That is great news!! Hope for continued healing and strength!
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Best post of the day. Such wonderful news for you.
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Fantastic news. I’m very happy for you. I love your takaway too! To be kinder.
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Incredible. Happy for you.
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Congrats!
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Wonderful news. Thanks for letting us know. A true Thanksgiving for you.
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Hallelujah Midkid!!!!
We are all so very happy for you.
God has blessed you greatly.
Feeling better is just around the corner.
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Midkid, I am so happy for you. This is wonderful news!! Wow and Wow again!! God is good!! I am wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving. Big hugs to you Midkid.
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Praise God for HIS mercy.
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Best news ever! So happy for you!
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Mid,

So glad to hear the good news!
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Mid,

Yay! Fantastic! Fabulous! Terrific! Wonderful! 🎉👍🏻💗😁🌷
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WOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOO!!!
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Congratulations!!!!!
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I LOVE YOUR POST!
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Congratulations! Thank Heavens for this! I am sure you feel very relieved.
Hoping this good news helps your husband realize how important you are and pays you the attention you deserve. That man needs an epiphany and maybe this will do it. From what you’ve described in your posts he needs an infusion of “warm & fuzzy”.
Did he take you out to celebrate? Bring you flowers? Goodness I hope so.
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Thank you all for kind thoughts!

It's weird--I'm 'cured' but I'm still really sick. Now my hair is beginning to grow back and in a few weeks I won't look so weird. (Last night DH and I were watching football together and I randomly asked him if my bald head had bothered him. I could tell he was hesitant, but he answered "yeah, it did. It reminded me 24/7 that you had cancer and that was hard".) well---a little too late, maybe, but it did show he was worried all along.

Dr. reminded me to be good to myself and get a lot of rest. AT least through the holidays and then one day at a time. In 2 more months we'll do another PetScan but I think since he didn't order up a round of radiation--I can relax a little.

You've all been there for me and that has meant a lot. I could be super cranky and angry at DH and you didn't judge me for it.

Looks like I WILL be going to my son's for Thanksgiving, but DH has said if I feel uncomfortable or anxious he'll fly me home. Good to know I can escape if I need to. I have not talked to my son at all in weeks, so I don't know what to expect. He is incapable of being 'calm' and peaceful and I will take my laptop and some books and hide out in the room.

I am so happy, but you can't tell looking at me--eyebrows make for a lot of emotion, you'd be surprised!
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I am happy for you, Midkid. I am wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving, try not to worry, and enjoy your day, but I do think the hide in the room is a good plan just in case. Blessings to you!
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Feel better soon!
Keep eating steak like you have to keep up your iron.

Enjoy Thanksgiving at your Son's, maybe an overnight in a hotel nearby?
Whatever you need, you should have it!

Had no idea about the eyebrows, never would have occurred to me. Feeling dumb here. Thanks for sharing that. Talking through your illness has also helped some of us understand what friends have gone through. So really, thank you!

Happy Thanksgiving, with so much to be grateful for!
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Midkid58 Nov 2019
Thanks--

Son's house is roughly the size of a small hotel, so no problem 'getting lost' in there and nobody will miss me.

I just asked DH to PLEASE have my back and not let them harangue me about anything. If it gets bad, I will toss over $500 and go home. A big part of the 'drama' is that have not seen me since two days after my first infusion and I looked OK. Now I am bald and sick and it IS disturbing. I'm used to it--and my hair grows fairly fast, but I won't look like me for months.

I DO need to eat more protein, it's just that nothing tastes good! Today was a "I wanna sleep all day" and I am going to eat dinner here in a few minutes and then crawl in bed with a book.
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