Hydrocele is bigger than a grapefruit.
He messed himself and find the underwear in grocery bags tied up.
I do not have the tummy to keep cleaning up after him as well as getting sick and passing out. Hospital has no idea why he has gotten sick and passed out twice. I have no support and would love to crawl in a hole for a break.
Thanks for allowing me to vent. Didn’t do no good.
People who have dementia can't be expected to handle their own hygiene and so that with incontinence, he would need constant care for that. It's really a huge job and not likely one for a person who is suffering with their own health issues. I hope you can find some answers.
Its not normal to get sick and pass out. Does he have health insurance? Get him back to his doctor and tell them they have to find out why. Then, call your local Medicaid office and apply. He should be in a facility. Call Health and Human Services and tell them you need help. It’s out there, you just need to ask. In the meantime, get Depends for him. At least if he messes in public, it won’t be all over the restroom. I know how you feel. My husband has also done that and the manager came out and talked to us about it the next time we went there. I was never so embarrassed in my life.
Good luck. Sorry the venting didn’t help.