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Very strange occurrence. My friend is on way down to her parents. It seems the brother has had a stroke and is in ICU. She doesn't have any details yet but he is intubated. Depending upon the severity of the stroke he may go to rehab, or need long term care which the mom cannot provide for many reasons, including her own advanced age and his size. So even though it's very tragic, he isn't a threat to his dad at the moment, or maybe never will be again. Of course my friend will have to help figure out what to do. Will update as I get more info on what is happening,
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Mysteries of life. Hopefully your friends siblings are ready to take action and assist your friend with the many decisions needing to be made at this time. It is an opportunity to make long term decisions for the care of her parents. I'm sure the mother is very frightened at this turn of events. Perhaps she will be more reasonable now as she no longer has the backing of her son who was/is apparently ill also. She is lucky to have you in her corner for support. I still think she needs the guidance of qualified legal counsel to avoid missteps with three handicapped people to care for and of course Dad still needs medical attention. Hopefully he has it by now. Thanks for keeping us informed.
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It sounds like someone somewhere must've been praying for an end to the abusive situation. Sometimes bad things must happen to someone before they'll stop abusing their victim, I've seen this happen before multiple times. Abuse generally doesn't stop despite a major crisis, I've noticed this. The best thing you could do if the brother does recover is keep him away from the elderly man because he won't stop abusing him and the abuse will eventually lead to the man's death. Abuse is an endless vicious cycle that just won't quit on its own, this is why it's important to just put the man under other care and maybe into a facility for his safety. I'm an abuse survivor myself, and that's how I can tell you abusers never quit abusing their victims despite a major health crisis
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empathy!!! wow...what a story!! karma...god...saved the day for those two elderly people!! that rotten son!!
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Oh dear. Couldn't have happened to a nicer chap.

I'm sorry for the son's affliction, I'm sorry for his mother's having to face this, and I'm sorry that the family has been forced into a crisis. But if it results in the father being well cared for and the mother being better supported, then I can't be sorry about that. Please update, hope your friend is coping okay.
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Karma happened.
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Empathy, now your friend has MORE to worry about. Support her if you can.
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Oh boy. Thanks everyone. My friend is pretty stressed out. At least her sister is flying in tomorrow and dome decisions will be made. Karma. I was thing the same thing. We have been in constant communication. She is doing the best she can under the circumstances. Just want safety for the dad and relief for my dear friend.
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Empathy: I can imagine the stress imposed on your friend. Please remind her to take care of self! I can't say that enough because if she falls ill, she is no good to ANYONE!
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