Today, I sent an email to the person who is in second place per the TRUST should I decide I no longer wish to do this Care giving and Management of estate. I said: Just want to remind you that you are in Second Place if I decide to leave. OMG, she came unglued...She emailed me back and said, well sell the house NOW while you are there, don't leave that to me. And find the HOME now...Then, I WILL DO THE BEST I CAN FROM HERE. Well I was nice I did not write back and remind her that we cared for her dad for 6 years while she lived in a far away place and visited for 3 days once a year. After I upset her and scared her, I told her I had no intention of leaving. I just felt good putting someone in their place that always says to me,,,if there is anything I could do, you know I would....Ya Right I know I am bad.....I think it is time for my Partner to find a different person for Second Place in the Trust. And, I will check them out. After-all something could happen to me and I want to make sure he is going to be alright.