Mother-in-law has dimentia/Alzheimers. She loves her son but hates me and my daughter. I'm so tired and stressed and sad. Any Help? I don't know how to cope with her being so mean. She's awful. She thinks I'm in her house and is always telling my husband she wants my daughter and me out. I just need to know if there is anyone out there going through this? I find myself arguing and hating her so much. I feel guilty. Can't take it anymore.
And yes, where is your husband is all this? You and your daughter deserve some peace in your own home. She made need meds to address her agitation, or placement in a facility; she may need a higher level of care that can be safely provided at home.
I would not discount the effect that this is having on your or your child's mental health. And of course, your child ALWAYS comes first in a situation like this.
Did this hate started after Mom-in-law developed Dementia/Alzheimer's, or had she been that way from the first day you met her?