My Dad had a ski accident and will likely need in home care when he gets home. I live 2 hours away. Just looking for others who are in a similar situation. I could move closer to him, but am hesitant to uproot myself. I feel like if he gets the care he needs I can visit him every few weeks like I have been doing anyway.
Have you discussed this with the Therapists at the Rehab where he is?
Is your dad a Veteran? If so get in contact with his local Veterans Assistance Commission they can help determine how much help the VA can provide.
He might qualify for a little or a lot.
Bottom line though he will have to hire caregivers if he needs a lot of care. The amount of care he needs will be determined by his recovery in rehab.
If he is going to need full time, 24/7/365 care looking into a Skilled Nursing Facility might be the best option.
Do NOT uproot yourself.
If helping him is a priority for you then uprooting HIM and moving him closer to you would be better. Notice I did not say moving him in with you.