He has no assets, owes apx $150g on house and car. Dad does live in home with my family currently. We have done this for five years now and the demands of personal care, on top of the anger, physically aggression and hitting has brought me to the place where I am afraid for my 6mo old grandbaby. Dad is very difficult n demanding when I play or tend the baby. We must consider the safety of the majority over the one... it is time to move dad 2 a nursing home. Where do I start when he has no savings or assets.. only debt.
Face it Dad is destitute. Contact the VA and ask what you have to do to have him admitted to a VA home.
Next time he is violent to a family member call the police and ask for him to be removed for a psychiatric evaluation then refuse to take him back into the home citing the safety of the grandbaby