Mom is accusing my sis of stealing from her and my husband of poisoning her. both accusations are unfounded. defending my sis and husband is an exercise in futility but i don't want to go along with her paranoia and give her fuel to more wild accusations. any suggestions?
when she's present, she's a joy to be with. i just imagined there might be strategies to ride out the storm. (ok, this declaring of incompetency is something i am not able to process; i'm needing to do the ostrich head in the sand bit with it but thanks so much for your response, psteigman.)