Dad has been and still is a control freak. He has to argue with her when she sees things or believes something happened that didn't. He is adament about my not going with her to her doctor and I know he isn't letting the doctor how much the dementia has advanced. I think that is because he doesn't want to hear what the doctors will actually say. I know she needs other checks than just what her gp does when they go in but they don't say anything that needs to be said. I have reminded him on so many occasions that he can't control this, this time and for the moment he will let up on trying to correct her and his need to be right all the dang time. I am at my wits end. I have printed out info for him to read and of course he doesn't.. I just wanted to know if I am not the only one out here butting heads with the other parent.