During the waking hours everything is OK. Mom will go, let me know, we do a changing and everything is relatively normal.
Mom usually turns in for the night between 9-10 pm most evenings, then spends a few hours tossing and turning before falling asleep. I usually let her sleep until 9am, later if she's especially tired. The problem I'm facing right now is with the nighttime urination. She goes a LOT during the night. Despite the Depends, she will be totally soaked by morning, I mean from her knees to the middle of her back. Her blankets, the absorbent pads, the sheets, everything is literally drenched. I tried using two adult diapers on her for bedtime, it worked at first but now it's no different than using one. This alone is accounting for a solid 50% of the workload. The cleaning, the laundry, it's a real mess every day.
She doesn't drink a whole lot of liquids after dinner, maybe a cup of no-caffeine tea or juice and an eight oz. cup of water for the overnight. Does anyone have any helpful advice to offer here?
Perhaps a potty run at 11pm before you turn in? If she has been awake or dozing her body has been producing urine since she went to bed at 9.
Good Luck.
There are also booster pads that can be put inside the underwear, they absorb like pads but have no liner so excess can soak through to the underwear.
I was also surprised to discover that some places sell the bed pads in different thicknesses as well, I guess I wasn't paying attention when I bought ours.