My mother has moderate dementia. She is in a home aged 90. She says she has no problem with the way I look after her which is as best i can due to living far away. But she has suddenly cut me out of her will. She says I dont need anything from her as I work and can pay my way, but other parents who have offspring who can pay their way do not become disinherited because of it, and some of my friends have more than me and still get a mention in their parents will. I thought my mother didnt like me but she says she does and thinks highly of me.. so why cut me out of her will? I pay something towards her care home fees and when she told me she wanted to change her will.. I paid the fee for changing the will. So I do my best and cannot understand this. Any ideas
I will say this,
No attorney will change a Will if the client is incompatent.If that attorney did in fact change the Will?That attorney needs to be reported to the bar.
If your Mother has dementia and is incompatent?Who is the POA of your Mother?Something here doesn't sound correct to me.
You took your Mother in to have her Will changed and for you to be removed from the Will?And you paid for it all?What reason would you pay for it all?If Mother wanted you removed.Sounds fishy to me.
I think the reason why Mom made you pay to have the Will changed is because,you did something to the Will that your mom didn't agree to.It's your fault the Will needs to be changed.Because,you did something wrong to the Will that Mom didn't agree to.Is why mom made you pay to fix the will and have you removed is my guess.
In case you didn't know, "poster" is from the UK. "Solicitor" is NOT strange. It is the correct word in the UK. By the way, "UK" means England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland.
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