Lived in home with mother, making sure her meds were okay, her diet was being as healthy as possible, cleaned house, taught her computer as much as I could so she would feel a little connected, etc. Everyone knows the story. My sister visited her once or twice a year, lives 20 miles away. I detest wills and money, so I ignored it, focused on QOL. Well, we had the will reading and everything my mother owned went to my sister. My sister plans to sell the home I lived in most of my life. It perplexed me why my mother did this. My sister was the baby of the family, but if showing up twice a year constitutes caring, someone is delusional. Thank you.
My dad had told everyone that this house/land was going to the 2 boys who live in mainland for over 20 years. He told me that if I wanted land, then I should marry a man with land. When he passed away last year, everyone was surprised that he actually added my name with 2 brothers. He may have told everyone that I'm a bad daughter, but he did think I deserve to be part owner of his house/land.
No matter how we try not to feel hurt, it does feel for me a betrayal when my siblings insisted that we split the proceeds equally. Where were they these past 25 years when mom and dad needed them????
she is just mean to leave you out IMO