My mom often asks me where the other Jess is. She knows I am Jess but thinks there are 2 Jesses.
Ive read about capgras syndrome but my mom isn’t stressed by either of the Jesses(luckily)
She thinks they each have different things they do around the house.
Other family members duplicate occassionally as well.
She will always ask where is the other (peter, Paul or Mary). She will want to know if they have a key to get in the house or if they will have a place to sleep.
She doesn’t have a preference between Jess or the other Jess. She tells me they are very similar personalities. She doesn’t ask for the other Jess to come, just wants to know where she is etc
Just go along with whatever your mom thinks is happening; that's your best bet. It's hard, I know.........and I'm right there with you, too. It just seems easier to enter THEIR reality than to argue/question/correct what they think is going on. They tend to forget what they were talking about very quickly, too, so distracting the elders is also a good idea, I've found. Every night lately, my mother calls me from the Memory Care ALF where she lives (4 miles away) asking if we're going to the movies or out for the evening and if she has to come watch the babies. I'm 64 and my DH is 63, so naturally, there are no babies to watch nor are we going anywhere that requires her to be here. It's easier for me to say "Not tonight, thank you Mom" than to say anything else. She lets go of the idea immediately, we say goodnight, and that's that. At least for NOW.
Good luck!
So, in some ways, there were multiple versions of me.
If I say something to him in one room, the next time he sees me (in another room) he might tell me what "She" or sometimes "He" or "That young woman" said to him.
Other times he will go around looking for "that woman I'm supposed to meet" or "that man who's supposed to pick me up and take me somewhere, I forget where." Or he will ask for Memory12345, and when I say "I'm right here," he'll say, "No, you're not her."
I only wish I could clone myself. Doing everything, or supervising others when I can hire someone, is stressful.