My mom has had dementia for three years she is now bedridden and is semi conscious she has to be fed and cared for in every way. Hospice thinks she's dying now the doctors has ordered to stop feeding her even though she eats without a feeding tube is this legal?
In hind sight, it looks like the doctor made a good call. I am sorry that you didn't have sufficient information to understand the doctor's decision. The hospice staff should be able to provide that explanation.
Losing your mother would have been painful under any circumstances. I am sorry that you had the additional stress of the feeding issue.