My grandmother has dementia but she is starting to get the behavioral issues that come along with it. She has had a few outbursts with us when she didn’t want to do something and wasn’t getting her way. She also had a stroke a few months ago and had temporarily lost her mobility so we hired a friend to get her up and give her showers but she was abusive to her and she ended up quitting when my grandmother became mobile. So my question is if home care agencies for elderly people have the experience and ability to handle difficulty that someone with dementia has as the condition progresses?
That person will not care for her the way you do. And even the caregiver will need to have the opportunity for trial and error to find how best to work with your mom. You have to be patient.
And of course there may come the time, when her remaining at home is just not in anyone's best interest, including herself, so best now to get plan B in place just in case. I wish you the very best.
There are medications that may calm GM down. Also, UTIs will cause this problem.