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Carefor, dentures are designed to grip tightly or else they wouldn't be able to do the job. The key is to break the suction seal, with my mom's uppers I grab the front teeth and lever the back of the plate down off the roof of the mouth. Her lowers are attached to her remaining front teeth, so I usually push up on the wire clips to pop them off. If you are using a denture adhesive you may need to wiggle them a little to break the seal first. And when it comes to adhesives, a little goes a long way, don't over apply! If you are still having trouble you may want to visit a dentist or denturist for a demonstration.
My mother in law has Alzheimer's and here lately she does not seem to understand when I tell her she needs to take her teeth out so they can be cleaned so I try to take them out and you screams and hits me saying and my hurting her. I assure you that I am not hurting her but since she is having a had time understanding what I am wanting her to do she just gets really combative with me. I am open to any suggestions that may make it easier when removing her dentures
I was not surprised to look at your profile and discover that your loved one has dementia. I don't think reasoning is going to get you very far. Sigh.
Will he use a mouth wash?
Could you persuade him to put his dentures in a cleaning solution without discussing whether they are clean or not? "Here a really cool tablet that turns the water blue. And if you put dentures in it they turn it clear again. I'd really like to see if that really happens. Could we try it with your dentures?" or "Yes, I know that your teeth are natural, but they are removable. I think that is so cool! It must be really special to be able to take them out and look at them. Can I see how it is done?"
Maybe his dentist would have some suggestions for alternate ways to improve his oral hygiene.
It is possible that this will pass. He will resist cleaning them for a while, and then forget about and agree to do it without fussing. We can hope!
Good luck. And if you find an approach that seems to work, please share it. We learn from each other.
Had the same deal with my Mom. By the time she got out of rehab (6 weeks) I had to get the dentures to a dentist for professional cleaning to get the BLACK off of them. But here is what has worked for my Mom. She is more willing to let go of the dentures in the morning or early afternoon than at night. It could be before a shower "let's give your teeth a chance to get clean while you take a shower". Or after breakfast while you are doing shaving or similar stuff. My Mom is now in AL and I think they get the dentures cleaned about 5 days out of 7. I can live with that. Hope this helps.
What you say why he is to see if the person issued the dentures can advise you on this. This is what I would do if I could not remove the dentures myself. You really don't want to hurt your self or your loved one, and you definitely don't want to damage the dentures either. What I'm wondering is whether or not the dentures might have created a vacuum. This is something to consider as long as nothing is holding them in.
Run To the Dentist Immediately! This happened to us, and he could barely remove the uppers. Chewed me out... mom had told me that THEY WEREN'T REMOVABLE. How would I know?......She had just arrived from México. Dentist upset, mom too, me three!
A stranger told me to give my mom a piece of honeycomb. Its super sticky and sweet. He said I should be able to pull on the end piece of the honeycomb and the dentures will be stuck to it. Haven't tried it yet.
Hi Mulata88, are you sure they were really dentures and not implants? Implants would not be removable like dentures are. Dentures must sometime be removed for cleaning, and cleaning is very important in oral hygiene, and proper oral hygiene is a great contributor to good health.
Yes, she came tu USA with 4 real teeth, and a partial upper, with hooks for the fit around the 4 teeth.
Lower plate is a full one.
She's so shy, private, ... she wouldn't let me know, much less see what or how they are, or how she looks without them. Honest truth.
One eye tooth got loose... pulled out.
One other tooth fell off by itself while she was doing dishes. She ran to find me and show it to me.............
I said, are you bleeding? No.
Jumped into the car, dentist took impressions, tooth replaced by 10am next day.
Mom asks me: So, now what do we do with my tooth? I said, give it to the lady, she'll put it away. I felt so sad. Mom, in her younger day, knew more about medical care, life, and what not. Now, as we wait at the doctor's office she says: "Why are we here"?------------------top of my iceberg. M88
That's pretty odd that dentures won't come out for cleaning. I once knew someone who had dentures, and he was always able to remove them for cleaning every night. He used Polident adhesive, and sometimes the adhesive wore off, often while he was right in the middle of eating! Imagine having your dentures come loose while you're trying to chew your food, and having to get up from your meal and glue your teeth back in just so you can finish eating. I witnessed this many times with my foster dad, which is why I find it odd to hear of dentures that won't budge for cleaning. Yes, this is very odd and definitely very puzzling because it would definitely leave you scratching your head on that one
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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If you are still having trouble you may want to visit a dentist or denturist for a demonstration.
Will he use a mouth wash?
Could you persuade him to put his dentures in a cleaning solution without discussing whether they are clean or not? "Here a really cool tablet that turns the water blue. And if you put dentures in it they turn it clear again. I'd really like to see if that really happens. Could we try it with your dentures?" or "Yes, I know that your teeth are natural, but they are removable. I think that is so cool! It must be really special to be able to take them out and look at them. Can I see how it is done?"
Maybe his dentist would have some suggestions for alternate ways to improve his oral hygiene.
It is possible that this will pass. He will resist cleaning them for a while, and then forget about and agree to do it without fussing. We can hope!
Good luck. And if you find an approach that seems to work, please share it. We learn from each other.
To
the
Dentist
Immediately!
This happened to us, and he could barely remove the uppers.
Chewed me out... mom had told me that THEY WEREN'T REMOVABLE. How would I know?......She had just arrived from México.
Dentist upset, mom too, me three!
M88
Lower plate is a full one.
She's so shy, private, ... she wouldn't let me know, much less see what or how they are, or how she looks without them. Honest truth.
One eye tooth got loose... pulled out.
One other tooth fell off by itself while she was doing dishes. She ran to find me and show it to me.............
I said, are you bleeding? No.
Jumped into the car, dentist took impressions, tooth replaced by 10am next day.
Mom asks me: So, now what do we do with my tooth? I said, give it to the lady, she'll put it away. I felt so sad. Mom, in her younger day, knew more about medical care, life, and what not. Now, as we wait at the doctor's office she says:
"Why are we here"?------------------top of my iceberg.
M88
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