I have been with my husband 21 years and have helped to take care of his father until he passed and for 18 of those years took care of his schizophrenic mother..... who now thinks I am the devil dye to medication changes. My husband had taken over my role watching after her until he had a massive stroke this past November...... his sister had a stroke 3 years prior. They are her POAs. There is a grandson, sisters son who is 30 and has a family but lives near by. It takes everything I have just to take care of my husband and try to keep the house running. My MIL has been untypically decent since his stroke but just had a medical issue and a short stay at the hospital.... we have lived on the edge of our seats for the past few years since the medication change sent her into psychotic episodes. She does still shower herself and gets dressed but she is not well. The nephew thinks that checking on her is enough. I know it is not. I can not deal with her thru another episode. She will refuse to be placed somewhere because she has "lifetime rights" but it is our house, it may have been transferred for a dollar but we have paid for it by paying their loans off and we have paid the taxes for at least 15 years. What do I have to do to have her placed some where? We areally in PA if that helps.