My husband has had Alzheimer's for 5 years and has been in a facility for the last five months. I visit him everyday, he is so happy to see me, but when it is time for me to leave he gets very upset. He does not understand why I cannot stay and why he cannot come home with me. I used to tell him I would be right back but he told me "that is not true, you don't". I tell him I go every day, I don't know whether he believes me. Is there a way to handle the good byes - May be I shouldn't go as often?.
You might want to consult with the social worker on staff about this issue. My heart goes out to you.
AliciaCC