In spite of our best efforts, Mom falls now and then. Broken several bones. The last time, she fell on her face. Assisted living.... are they supposed to notify us about these falls? I about passed out when I came to visit and saw her multicolor face and all the skin off her nose. BTW, we are moving her as a result to a higher level of care. I can't stand it anymore, not knowing when she has fallen.
Even if there was very minor injury, such as a scrap on Mom's ankle, the facility would give me a call. The HIPAA form asked for one person to be the main go between, and that was me.
Oh please note, even if Mom was living with you, unless she was glued to your hip like a 2 year old, she would fall if she is now a fall risk. You could turn to answer the phone and Mom would fall in a split second. So if you start getting a lot of calls from the higher level of care facility, it all part of getting older and losing one's balance or legs giving out.
In my case, both brother and myself share healthcare POA. Since he lives near Mom, he is the ALF's first point of contact. If he is not available, then I am contacted. We, in turn, inform each other and 3rd sib who lives overseas. Mom's ALF ALWAYS contacts us with any info on a potentially dangerous event. Mom is 94+ and now wheelchair bound after numerous falls, breaks, surgeries starting at 91YO (prior to being in this ALF). She is alarmed to the hilt and still considered a huge fall risk.
You were not contacted....who was? Anyone? If no one was contacted, I'd be very wary of moving your Mom into higher care in this facility. At minimum, you and other family members need to talk to them about this event and be sure that you and the ALF agree on when and who needs to be contacted....ALWAYS....re: your Mom's care and when any adverse events, such as falls, occur.
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