Sister Dear has POV, acts like the Medical Expert of the World. and she only has an Associate's Degree in nursing and is so out of touch with nursing trends that I know way more than her. Her big excuses? "I'm old" (59) "I'm alone" (she has had a man in her life since she was 12 and just went thru a divorce 4 years ago and now has to deal with paying her bills and the upkeep of her house, etc) "I live too far away". I am SICK of her. Dad lives with my husband and I; mom is in a nursing home. We carry the load. No other family around except one fabulous cousin who helps me. I an SICK of her crap!
I had to come to a place of acceptance that my siblings are selfish and narcissistic. Through tears, prayers and more tears, I had to let it go and forgive them and focus on loving Mom.... Holding a grudge only hurts the person holding onto it.... be free.