My father is 71 had a stroke about 4 months ago. He now has very bad vision and can't concentrate on anything. I am 29 and work all day and so doors his wife. He is left in the house alone from early in the morning till evening. I stop by briefly, and suggest things for entertainment but he does nothing but watch the news all day long. He can't read or do puzzles, he can't drive, he tries to go for but walks but we live in south Florida and it's hotter than Hades out. He "hates" people and doesn't want friends or to go to a senior center for the day. I really don't know what to do for him anymore. He wants me to sit with him in his house forever, but I can't, I'm a married woman with a small business and life of my own. I have no siblings to help me. I'm really starting to get annoyed and depressed because I guess I'm feeling overwhelmed. He's like a child. It's very limited what he can do or will do, so that's why I'm looking for suggestions... Maybe something I haven't thought of. Thanks.
Depending on what the doctor says, you could ask about medication if it's depression. Sometimes meds can really lift the mood. If it's dementia, that is also sometimes a possibility. I would read a lot about them on this site so you can get some tips on how to cope.
Seventy-one isn't that old, but it could be age related decline. He may resist going to a senior center, church group meetings or socials due to being tired or self conscious. Does he have transportation to get to these places? Is there a minister or priest who might visit him?
IMO, the cause of his condition will help guide you in how to deal with it. I think once that is determined, you will be better able to form a plan. You can also adjust your expectations to what he is actually capable of doing.
When I came back into the room her comment was, "No one ever comes to see me. I'm so lonely." I understood then that no level of company would be able to break through her dementia.
My mom likes small things she can hold in her hands and examine--a rubik's cube, a toy car, a little doll. Some of these types of things might help entertain your father. My mom just likes to fiddle with things--maybe your Dad will, too.