They don't even make sure that she eats 3 meals everyday she is always hungry and I take her food all the time she wants to buy her own little refridgerator for her room . but for the money she pays thats not right . There supposed to make sure every person gets plenty of food that they need she keeps loosing weight. How do these places get away with all the neglect and just keep taking their money.? I have pictures that would probably shut them down if exposed then everyone pays for it because they all get moved around but this is gne way too far and needs to be investagated now? where or who do i go to?
Has Mom lost weight? How long has she been there?
If Mom would prefer to eat in her room, could she have the meal delivered to her (for an additional fee)?
Once you can identify the nature of the problem, discuss it with the staff. If it isn't corrected promptly, report it to the state's Ombudsman for care facilities.
This assumes you would like to keep her where she is. But if you have pictures of other problems, maybe you would just prefer to move Mom. What is the nature of the violations you have captured on film?
if your mother has Alzheimer's, she may take longer to eat or have to have someone watch her eat. We pulled our 87 year old because she lost weight 18 lbs.
She takes an hour and a half to eat, some form of senior anorexia.
I agree with pstiegman, but a nursing home doesn't do that either.