My Aunt & Uncle live in missouri. I live 3000 miles away my uncle is living at home I am not feeling safe for him with neighbor is helping him she has changed here phone number I have ask uncle for new number and he says he will get it from her next time she is over. He seem ok but she did try to buy his house but was unable to for some reason do to care for them I am not getting straight answer from uncle. My aunt is in a medical lodge just being comfortable on her last days with neighbor making all the decisions my uncle says he is but she some kind of authority but he gives me un sure answers. I just want to make sure he has things in order for himself why did he need to sell house? They have no children just in laws and my brother & I and our kids. I talk to my uncle twice a week do not want to put him in fear.