She is incontinent and wears depends, but has accidents! I'm besides myself when I put her clean laundry in her dresser and find dirty clothing hidden in the drawers! When I confronted her about this, she pretended not to know and told me to stay out of her room! It seems like new bad habits are being adopted by her lately! Has anyone else experienced that with a parent that lives with them?
I wondered if she is still able to do laundry. She may be more comfortable cleaning her own things if she can. My mother still does much of her own laundry. I can always tell when she had an accident when the washing machine goes on at an odd time. I don't say anything, because I know she needs her privacy when it comes to things like this. I don't get upset with her accidents, because I know they happen sometimes.