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I was forced to sign a Power of Attorney by my mother in 2009, I'm a disabled Veteran with Epilepsy I have not been medically deemed incompetent. She will not dissolve the power of Attorney, because it grants her control over my money.
Is it a Durable Power of Attorney. That could matter. If it's not Durable, then you have the right to revoke it. I would consult with an Elder law attorney in your state for the details on how to do that.
Why and under what circumstances were you "forced" to execute a POA? That would be unlawful coercion.
Also, is your mother the person for whom you're caring in independent living?
I don't understand the situation - did you execute a Power of Attorney appointing your mother, and under what circumstances can she act if you're not medically incompetent? Is this a broad POA that's effective w/o that medical condition, or one which specifies that she has certain authority notwithstanding or lacking declaration of incompetency?
Sometimes POAs are executed for very narrow purposes, such as executing transfer documents on sale of real property if the family has already moved and doesn't want to return. The attorney-in-fact then signs the deed and that authority expires, according to the terms of the POA, on conclusion of the sale.
Is this the kind you signed - giving your mother control over your finances but no other authority?
If you executed the POA, it's yours to change and/or revoke. I don't understand at all why your mother has authority to refuse to revoke something you executed.
"If for any reason, you become unhappy with the person you have appointed to make decisions for you under a durable power of attorney, you may revoke the power of attorney at any time. There are a few steps you should take to ensure the document is properly revoked.
While any new power of attorney should state that old powers of attorney are revoked, you should also put the revocation in writing. The revocation should include your name, a statement that you are of sound mind, and your wish to revoke the power of attorney. You should also specify the date the original power of attorney was executed and the person selected as your agent. Sign the document and send it to your old agent as well as any institutions or agencies that have a copy of the power of attorney. Attach your new power of attorney if you have one.
You will also need to get the old power of attorney back from your agent. If you can't get it back, send the agent a certified letter, stating that the power of attorney has been revoked.
Because a durable power of attorney is the most important estate planning instrument available, if you revoke a power of attorney, it is important to have a new one in place. An elder law attorney can assist you in revoking an old power of attorney or drafting a new one."
I'm a disabled Veteran with Epilepsy my bank account had been cleaned by a worker at a apartment complex (voided check in my file). Since then Her and my relationship has gotten continually worse she is 72 years old. I'm not allowed to ask her for any financial help as per the POA and she refuses to tear it up. She needs the financial security that I won't put her in financial danger.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Also, is your mother the person for whom you're caring in independent living?
I don't understand the situation - did you execute a Power of Attorney appointing your mother, and under what circumstances can she act if you're not medically incompetent? Is this a broad POA that's effective w/o that medical condition, or one which specifies that she has certain authority notwithstanding or lacking declaration of incompetency?
Sometimes POAs are executed for very narrow purposes, such as executing transfer documents on sale of real property if the family has already moved and doesn't want to return. The attorney-in-fact then signs the deed and that authority expires, according to the terms of the POA, on conclusion of the sale.
Is this the kind you signed - giving your mother control over your finances but no other authority?
If you executed the POA, it's yours to change and/or revoke. I don't understand at all why your mother has authority to refuse to revoke something you executed.
Could you please explain the situation more?
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"If for any reason, you become unhappy with the person you have appointed to make decisions for you under a durable power of attorney, you may revoke the power of attorney at any time. There are a few steps you should take to ensure the document is properly revoked.
While any new power of attorney should state that old powers of attorney are revoked, you should also put the revocation in writing. The revocation should include your name, a statement that you are of sound mind, and your wish to revoke the power of attorney. You should also specify the date the original power of attorney was executed and the person selected as your agent. Sign the document and send it to your old agent as well as any institutions or agencies that have a copy of the power of attorney. Attach your new power of attorney if you have one.
You will also need to get the old power of attorney back from your agent. If you can't get it back, send the agent a certified letter, stating that the power of attorney has been revoked.
Because a durable power of attorney is the most important estate planning instrument available, if you revoke a power of attorney, it is important to have a new one in place. An elder law attorney can assist you in revoking an old power of attorney or drafting a new one."
I hope this helps. Good Luck!