My Father wants to go to nursing home, My Mother is already in one, did live with me for about 1 1/2 years, then decided he wanted an apartment, so he moved into apartment. Now he has decided that he can't take care of himself and shouldn't be alone, so he either wants to go to nursing home or move back in with me.But he has a lease for about 6 more months in apartment. I just think he doesn't know what to do and neither do I.
And then put him in the facility where your mom is.
Do your mom and dad get along well? Has he been visiting her often? (Is the staff there familiar with him?)