Whenever he goes #2 he just doesn't wipe. He won't let me help him and even if i get the toilet paper ready for him he just throws it away. He is not only starting to smell like feces but he is getting it everywhere!
We tried wipes and it still doesn't get the job done. We're going to a physical therapist to help with strengthening his muscles but I don't know how much that will help. He won't wear any type of diaper, if I suggest it he throws it at me and just doesn't wear anything.
I'm just not sure what to do. ANY advice would be greatly appreciated.
And you're right about the physical therapy. It won't do much to help him.
I did want to mention about physical therapy. My mother is almost so bad physically that she's like a paralyzed person. A few months ago PT came to home and worked with her and I was amazed how different she got around. Almost too good, she walked down steps to her car and drove to her old work!! That being said, once therapist stopped coming, she quickly lost all that she gained and then some. We tried to continue the exercises but had hard time making her do them.