One long suffering parent decided that they did not want to continue to accept certain behavior in the home and siblings are furious and blaming me - claiming that I am 'putting these ideas in their heads.' Have started a smear campaign against me and have sent police here ( they said everything is fine, no problem) Currently they are contacting businesses that I deal with and telling them stuff that is not true. Anyone had a similar experience?
And what vendors? Do you run a business?
A more detailed description ( yes, it will be long, dont worry) of the situation will get you better answers.
More details will help the discussion.
" ohhhhhhhh, my brother called you? Oh, well, you know about his issues, right? Well, i can't really talk about them, but I'm mom's power of attorney? Which she did, all legal and proper because she knows about brother's issues and, well, you can't but feel sorry for him, right?. Just wished it didn't cause such a bother. Thanks for checking in, momma is just fine."
I'd cal the local sherrif/PD and make sure they know what's going on as well.