My husband is still continent so far, even though he has Alzheimer's. He has gotten prudish, like a young boy might be. Recently, he has forgotten how to use the toilet. He doesn't want to pull down his pants and shorts. He will sit on the toilet like that, but he doesn't pee.
Sometimes he will let me take his bottoms down, and actually sit on the toilet. He has been squirming for five minutes needing to go, but when he sits down, he won't remember that he needed to pee. So after 30 seconds, he wants to get up and pull his pants back up. Sometimes it takes five attempts or more before he finally pees. Any advice?