My mom has too many overwhelming medical issues to be a candidate for surgical repair of a hip fracture. Early on, we were told the hip would eventually "stabilize," and if she was lucky, would stop producing pain. The ortho specialist has been having the hip x-rayed monthly, and continues to tell us it's "not healing," but he hasn't given any direction to her nursing team at her nursing home, nor explained to any of us what is to be done to try to get it to heal. Actually, we thought that it was already a forgone conclusion that it WON'T heal, since the two broken parts cannot be put back together without surgery. Is there a different meaning to the word that I'm not getting?? We don't understand why he's monitoring it with x-ray, but appears to have no plan of action. When we asked what to expect, how this is likely to play out, he mumbled something about not seeing too many of these cases (hip NOT surgically repaired), as most people have surgery and get it corrected. I have asked her nursing home about getting a second ortho opinion, hoping to get some direction from a doctor who HAS seen this scenario before. My mom has been on bedrest 24/7 since the hip fracture, so now has bedsores on her heel and both calves. One of the calf bedsores is very deep, and into the muscle, and is draining and (despite antibiotics) clearly infected. The heel tissue is necrotic, but hasn't sloughed off yet. It is LARGE. I am sick, scared, and confused, and not sure what to do to help my mom. I am pushing for her to be sent to a wound care specialist, and also to have a bone scan to see if the rest of her bones are as fragile as her hip bone apparently is, in addition to the ortho second opinion consult. Suggestions?? Anyone else been through this with a loved one?
I would also be requesting a care conference to discuss a thorough plan of action and contingency plans. If would help if you have another family member or friend, just to even out the numbers. Sometimes there are so many staff members they outnumber the patient's representative significantly.
Make lists of issues, proposed action, who will be taking it, interim results, and alternate plans of action. Put them on the spot, gently but firmly.
I don't at all like the sound of your mother's bedsores or what I would consider negligence in allowing these to occur. She should be on a rotating pressure mattress and turned regularly and frequently. Or they can put inflatable calf cuffs on her lower legs.
I would find my own doctors, getting referrals from someone you trust and not rely on the nursing home. Try to find a reputable wound care specialist as well as an ortho doctor for a bone scan. That's a good idea to determine if anything else is going on.
Nonoperable hip fracture: If there are multiple other issues, I can understand that surgery would be dangerous. I'm not a medical person, but it seems that if the fracture isn't set, it would heal in the position it's in. But i don't have any experience on this issue. My mother was, however, on nonweight bearing status for 6 weeks because of the nature and position of her fracture. It's been about 15 years and I don't recall what kind of PT she got, but if she did get it, it was in bed.
If the fracture isn't healing, the consulting ortho doctor should at least advise you what will happen. I'd search for someone outside the nursing home and get a second opinion.
I think sometimes it's easy to feel that the doctors at the rehab facility can be relied on and you don't need your own doctors. We learned quickly that's not the case. (I also caught one defrauding Medicare; we documented, I reported him, and Medicare eventually did concur with my finding.)
And BTW, I'd be documenting all the conversations and interaction you have with the medical staff. I hope I'm wrong, but I see problems on down the line.
As far as pushing the nursing home to act: put your demands in writing and send it certified mail to the nursing home. Report them to the agency that supervises nursing homes in your area for the pressure sores. Kick them where it hurts and keep kicking until you get what you need for your mom. They can kick you out I suppose but maybe that's not a bad thing. Bed sores are unacceptable. Start laying down a trail of paperwork. Every conversation should be in writing. If they only talk to you, the YOU write a letter back to them saying what they told you and insisting that if the letter is incorrect they send you written notice. iN other words, get your self prepared for legal action. Prays for you and your Mom.
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